What I’ve Learned About Gentle Parenting from Working in Multiple Homes

In nearly 10 years as a full-time nanny, including two billionaire families and almost 20,000 hours in homes, I’ve seen every parenting style imaginable. Gentle parenting stood out to me for its empathy, but I also learned a crucial balance: kids need space to feel their emotions and learn resilience when they hear “no.” Here’s how I’ve helped children process disappointment, regulate big feelings, and grow stronger through gentle yet realistic guidance.